…..on being a “real” man, on Internet porn, and on what his father did that changed everything for him. Pornography is a HUGE problem; it’s everywhere now, not just seedy shops and gas stations in the ugly part of town. You can get it for free, in endless variety, anonymously, adding to the belief that consuming it isn’t very bad, and won’t literally eat your soul. As a father of four, I wonder if “today is the day” that allowing Internet in the house turns out to have been a mistake. And, you’ll notice that very little is being said by anyone in charge about the problem of easy access for minors, because they don’t see it as a problem, and that’s the real problem.